Mars in Virgo

Your Mars Sign firstly distinguishes the way you force through your needs. Secondly, how you behave in bed. Thirdly, what you are ready to fight for and last but not least how you fight. Thus, you might have an emotional core personality (Sun and Moon Signs) but when it comes to forcing through your needs, you can be more rational like Virgo with this placement.

Rational Virgo

Features of Mars in Virgo:

Mars in Virgo is a very devoted Mars, whose greatest pleasure it is to satisfy the needs of her partner. In a way, Mars in Virgo is like a Geisha since it’s most satisfying for her to satisfy her partner. Her ambition to serve, please and (before all) learn everything there is to her partner, usually is results-producing. Many with this placement have fantasies about S&M, because of their serving nature and a certain guilt-based drive. Virgo can experience punishment as salvation in a way and as compensation for the high standards, she tries to meet in her daily life. The sadistic side can help her externalize her own guilt. Demanding, however, doesn’t really lie in her nature and is not really necessary also, since satisfying the partner, actually is the greatest aphrodisiac to Mars in Virgo.

A classic sex life usually fulfills Virgo also, because she has no urge to experiment. That’s because Virgo is the Sign of perfection. Thus, she rather learns to perfect a routine. BUT Mars in Virgo has to feel completely comfortable with her partner FIRST, to fully unfold her sexuality. If that is not the case, Mars in Virgo can be a restrictive, shy and inhibited placement. Since Virgo is ruled by Mercury, it is a rational Mars Sign, which doesn’t act on impulse but rather on thought. At times, this can be difficult in the bedroom – since overthinking is not necessarily helpful when it comes to sex. Also, Virgo is a Sign, which usually has to maintain control – whereas letting loose and enjoying oneself can be difficult at times. Also, Virgo is the Sign of physical hygiene, which indicates that sex should be clean to be enjoyable.