Your Mars Sign firstly distinguishes the way you force through your needs. Secondly, how you behave in bed. Thirdly, what you are ready to fight for and last but not least how you fight.
Mars in Aries
Aries is ruled by Mars since it is the first sign whose basic survival instincts are very strong. This makes Aries one of the most sexual Signs of all. The energy is raw, animalistic and wild. However, at the same time, there is something innocent about his sexuality. That’s because sex for him is pure, playful and natural. Although Aries behaves boisterously, dominantly and unrestrained in bed, it is not about dominance or power for him. Rather it is about frolicking around uninhibited and without thought. A Mars in Aries usually knows exactly what he likes and isn’t afraid to satisfy his own needs. Also, Mars in Aries is quickly aroused when it comes to sex. That’s why he can cut short foreplay at times and consummate the act at the most random places.
Because Aries is the first Sign of the Zodiac, the parts of the brain which are responsible for our basic instincts are especially active. Thus, Aries is completely in the present without any thought about the future or the past when it comes to sex and he does not overthink or think at all. He simply starts, plays and finishes having the best time ever, then goes on with his life and repeats. When it comes to fighting, he is similarly uncomplicated. His invasive and impatient energy can be brutal, but anger goes as quickly as it comes. Also, he never holds any grudges. Therefore, Mars in Aries can be raving mad at times, but because of his honesty and directness, he is actually the most uncomplicated Sign to fight with. Angelina Jolie has a Mars in Aries.
Mars in Taurus
Taurus is a very sensual Sign. It is the Sign of the body. Therefore, Mars in Taurus is a good placement to have – when it comes to sex. That’s because no-one knows the body and its sensual desires better than Taurus. To him, each body is sacred, deserves to be spoiled, loved and pampered. It is not to be diminished to its physical appearance – since Taurus knows to embrace all shapes. The sexual appetite is big, but Mars in Taurus is not wild or unbridled like Aries. Rather, he is steady, enduring, passionate and consistent.
Also, it is a Sign which has mastered the art of enjoyment with all of his senses to the fullest. Moreover, Taurus is unrestricted when it comes to the body and has a natural relationship to sex. To him, there is nothing dirty or shameful about it. Rather, it is human nature and there is nothing to be ashamed of. However, a Mars in Taurus can also have a “stubborn”, monotone and urging manner – when long in a relationship. That’s because it is also a lazy Sign at times. When it comes to fighting, Mars in Taurus is not easily flappable. However, as soon as he is upset, he is set on maintaining his ground and pressing his point. In general, Mars in Taurus, however, has a peaceful, calm temper and doesn’t enjoy fighting one bit.
Mars in Gemini
Mars in Gemini is a placement, which you should NEVER argue with. There is no possible way for you to win – except you have this placement, too. Mars in Gemini is nimble-witted and very quick with words, knows exactly what to say to hurt you most in a fight and always hits the bullseye. BUT Mars in Gemini never holds a grudge, because he usually forgets what the whole fuss was all about very quickly or simply loses his interest to keep a fight running. In general, Mars in Gemini is a good-tempered fellow, who doesn’t make mountains out of molehills and who forgives easily. His light temper confers to his sexual style, also.
First of all, this is a Mars who really enjoys the sportive act of sex and likes to experiment. Gemini is an explorer, who behaves playfully and is curious to learn more things about his partner. For him, it is not about the climax but the playful act itself. As a Sign, which is ruled by Mercury, Gemini knows how to seduce with words. That especially includes his courtship behavior, since he masters the occasional flirt more than any other sign. Also, he is extraordinarily good with hands. In many ways, Mars in Gemini is comparable to the Mars in Aries, though his temper is lighter and he doesn’t need to dominate. Both parties are equals, who just enjoy frolicking around together.
Mars in Cancer
Mars in Cancer is the most difficult placement for Mars. That’s because Cancer usually swallows the Mars energy. For example, when fighting, he tends to position himself as a victim without reflecting his own fault. However, he takes everything extremely personal at the same time. Moreover, Mars in Cancer represses his anger/Mars energy or transforms it right into sadness. Then, he turns away from a fight rather than living it out. Without that energy at hand, sex can be a challenge – since Cancer is soulful and tender rather than sexual. When Mars in Cancer interacts with someone who is more physical and invasive, he can quickly feel molested. However, when he interacts with someone, who is sensitive to his needs and who he has an intimate, loving connection to, sex can be the most beautiful experience to him. That’s because Cancer is the sign of love, emotional connection,
Still, Mars in Cancer is usually a very talented lover – since he is empathic to the likes and dislikes. Moreover, Cancer knows to adjust to the rhythm and is devoted to caring about his partner’s needs. Also, he is the master of kissing. In a way, you could compare his sexual style by playing the piano four-handedly. First, you need to be sensitive to the pressure of the touch of the claviature. Second, you have to be sensitive to the rhythm, tone, and energy of your partner. Third, you need to be able to adjust so you can play in perfect harmony. Three things the Mars in Cancer has mastered. When in a relationship, sex (to the physically and emotionally sensitive Cancer) represents the purest connection and even gets addictive. Outside of a relationship, however, he can live completely abstinent.
Mars in Leo
Mars in Leo is a wonderful placement to have, though it can be a choleric combination, also. That’s because Mars is a Fire Planet, while Leo is a Fire Sign. Thus, Mars in Leo can quickly feel as though he is on fire. Then he might react belligerently at times. Because of the hot temper, Mars in Leo is definitely not a placement to ever argue with. Also, it is a very prideful Sign and when the pride gets pricked, it only builds up his pride. Still, it is a very good placement to have, because this hot temper is also creative, self-confident and endlessly passionate. Especially, when it comes to sex and everything concerning it.
Mars in Leo has a tendency to put on a show – celebrating himself and his sex-appeal to the fullest. He never overlooks his own needs. These include a certain need to stage the sexual act in a dramatic, and beautiful manner. Also, he has to be dominant, playful, and feel limitless passion at the same time. His self-confidence and sexual nature make him quite inhibited, but he does not need a lot of variety, however. As long as he feels desired, his self-loving nature will quickly arouse him and as long as there is passion everything is fine with him. Beyonce, for example, is a Mars in Leo.
Mars in Virgo
Mars in Virgo is a very devoted Mars, whose greatest pleasure it is to satisfy the needs of her partner. In a way, Mars in Virgo is like a Geisha since it is the most important (and satisfying) for her to satisfy the needs of her partner to the fullest. Her ambition to serve, please and (before all) learn everything there is to her partner, usually is results-producing. Many with this placement have fantasies about S&M, because of their serving nature and a certain guilt-based drive. Virgo can experience punishment as salvation in a way and as compensation for the high standards, she tries to meet in her daily life. The sadistic side can help her externalize her own guilt. Demanding, however, doesn’t really lie in her nature and is not really necessary also, since satisfying the partner, actually is the greatest aphrodisiac to Mars in Virgo.
She usually is quite fulfilled with a classic sex life also, because she has no urge to experiment. That’s because Virgo is the Sign of perfection. Thus, she rather learns to perfect a routine. BUT Mars in Virgo has to feel completely comfortable with her partner FIRST, to fully unfold her sexuality. If that is not the case, Mars in Virgo can be a restrictive, shy and inhibited placement. Since Virgo is ruled by Mercury, it is a rational Mars Sign, which doesn’t act on impulse but rather on thought. At times, this can be difficult in the bedroom – since overthinking is not necessarily helpful when it comes to sex. Also, Virgo is a Sign, which usually has to maintain control – whereas letting loose and enjoying oneself can be difficult at times. Also, Virgo is the Sign of physical hygiene, which indicates that sex should be clean to be enjoyable.
Mars in Libra
Mars in Libra is not the best Mars placement to have since it stands in opposition to Aries, the Sign which is ruled by Mars. That means Libra is the Sign which in a way entails the exact opposite of Mars. Libra is ruled by Venus and is, therefore, the Sign of refinement, elegance and sensual seduction. The raw and primitive act itself, without the perks of a Libra performance, can feel very unelegant to them – whereas foreplay can be celebrated in every way possible. Foreplay, in the case of Libra, does not only include the immediate time span before sex, but also every minute of the courtship dance – starting from the minute of the first encounter. Libra is the master of peacocking and concealing everything which does not meet her beauty standards. These include manners of interpersonal behavior as well as her looks.
Libra knows exactly how to put on the seduction show, since she can anticipate, read and change the atmosphere of the room like no other. Also, Libra knows exactly what someone likes and dislikes and is willing to please. Thus, Mars in Libra is the perfect lover. However, Libra rarely knows herself, what she likes or dislikes, is usually not open to demand anything and can overthink at times. Also, she feels she has to look perfect to engage in sexual relations, which can put a lot of pressure on her and inhibit her during the act. A fight with a Libra Mars is also no walk in the park since she can be a sneaky and malicious gossip. That’s because she has to be reflected in her feelings and reactions first, to know herself what she is allowed to feel.
Mars in Scorpio
Scorpio is the Sign, we associate with sex and Mars is the Planet, we associate with sex. Thus, it doesn’t come as a surprise, that Scorpio is the most sexual Sign of all. His dark intensity is overpowering and power is an important part of his sexuality, also. He has the raw and animalistic sexual energy of Aries but at the same time a certain sexual consciousness and a desire to be in control. For example, Scorpio has a tendency to sex somebody up – intensifying the desire to the fullest and then withdrawing himself – making the whole experience a little torturous but extremely climactic. There is an undeniable and omnipresent sexual energy to everything a Scorpio does since his consciousness is continually connected to the basic instincts and “dark sides” of the people surrounding him. Thus, he is highly sexual – whereas in control at the same time.
Also, he is the incarnation of presence. That means, that every emotion he has, is profoundly intense. Especially, when it comes to passion. But what actually makes Mars in Scorpio the most sexual placement, is that with Scorpio everything is a life and death experience in a way. In the face of danger (when simulated and consensual of course) we generate our survival energy. That means, noradrenalin gets distributed, blood vessels get tighter, blood pressure heightens, pulse also, generating an increased blood supply. This physiological reaction, we need to get the blood to our pelvic base also – to have an enjoyable sexual experience. Thus, Mars in Scorpio is the sex master. When it comes to fighting, though, he doesn’t have a hot temper but rather he can be vindictive and scheming to stay in control. Leonardo Dicaprio, for example, has this placement.
Mars in Sagittarius
Sagittarius has the wild, pure, playful and natural sexual energy of Aries. There is also something innocent to his sexuality since he mostly enjoys frolicking around uninhibited. He behaves just as unrestrained as Aries and also has no shame in satisfying his own needs. In the case of Sagittarius, however, the sexual energy is complemented with an insatiable curiosity, an eagerness to experiment and an idealistic desire to make sex an almost spiritual experience. There is a certain ambition to sex with Sagittarius and at the same time an adventurous lightness.
Usually, Mars in Sagittarius has a lot of sex in his life and starts from an early age. As a Fire Sign, Sagittarius is also quickly aroused. That’s why Sagittarius can cut short foreplay at times and consummate the act at the most random places. When it comes to fighting, he is brutally honest, blunt, overconfident and almost cocky. Also, he can get dogmatic and insisting, that he is in the right even though he is not. But anger goes as quickly – as it comes and he usually does not hold any grudges since Mars in Sagittarius is an optimistic, free-spirited, and open-hearted fellow, who tends to look on the bright side. Rihanna has Mars in Sagittarius.
Mars in Capricorn
Mars in Capricorn is a complicated Mars placement since Capricorn tends to control his basic instincts and to put on a poker face to remain his cool. Thus, heating up, letting loose and simply enjoying oneself sexually can be a challenge. Also, because Capricorn is the most ambitious Sign of all, who always feels that he has to perform perfectly, which can generate a lot of pressure when it comes to sex. If that is the case, Mars in Capricorn is a restrictive and inhibited placement. The other side of Mars in Capricorn, however, is that Capricorn knows exactly how to actually “perform” perfectly. He is steady, enduring and consistent – whereas maintaining a certain amount of self-control. Thus, he knows how to prolong and intensify the act.
Because of the tendency to repress basic sexual instincts, one should never underestimate his passionate side – since it is carefully hidden away under the surface BUT conglomerated. There is no need for Mars in Capricorn to experiment because a classic sex life can be more than fulfilling to him. BUT Mars in Capricorn really has to feel completely comfortable with his partner FIRST to fully unfold his sexuality. When in a comforting and intimate relationship, sex to Mars in Capricorn can be a crucial outlet as compensation for his ambitious daily life. Outside of a relationship, however, he can live completely abstinent. When it comes to fighting, Mars in Capricorn usually keeps his cool and remains the authoritative and dominant party – without it having to be spoken. Brad Pitt, for example, has a Mars in Capricorn.
Mars in Aquarius
Mars in Aquarius is a very good placement to have since Aquarius has a peaceful and sanguineous temper, which harmonizes well with the Mars energy. When it comes to fighting, he is fair, constructive and interested in different standpoints. In general, Mars in Aquarius is a good-tempered fellow, who doesn’t make mountains out of molehills and who forgives easily. His light temper confers to his sexual style. First of all, this is
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Mars in Pisces
Mars in Pisces does not have the strongest sex drive, but is physically, haptically and orally extremely sensitive. Therefore, one can easily seduce a Pisces. Also, Mars in Pisces is extraordinarily empathic to the likes and dislikes of his partner. Thus, he usually knows exactly how to please without it having to be spoken. Comparable to Virgo, pleasing is the greatest aphrodisiac to Pisces. It is not a restrictive Sign, but it is a Sign, which connects more to the needs of others than to his own. Mars in Pisces also never demands anything, but is always open to doing everything – without any judgement from his part.
To him, sex is a spiritual experience, where two energies blend into one another rather than simply two physical bodies. His idealism and devotion make it a spiritual experience to everyone he encounters. There is something artistic, soft and tender to his sexuality but also submissive in a way, which is not a bad thing. It can be tricky, though, when two Mars energies of that kind meet and neither one of them knows, what they like themselves. When it comes to fighting, Pisces acts indulgent and yielding, because he has a sweet, soft nature and gets hurt easily and deeply.
But don’t forget to combine your Mars placement with your Moon, Sun, Venus Sign, the house placements, and of course the aspects in your birth chart. Because even if you have a restrictive placement like Capricorn or Virgo, but at the same time a Scorpio Moon or Sun in the eighth house, you are going to be a profoundly sexual and physical person either way.